tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3232363564912219130.post8958831917636132591..comments2023-06-25T11:25:37.908-04:00Comments on Inquisitive Muslimah: What does the quran say about how parents should treat their children?Aalyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02962364965528539568noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3232363564912219130.post-47749252659522990982010-06-06T13:56:12.334-04:002010-06-06T13:56:12.334-04:00No advice - I just wanted to tell you that I'm...No advice - I just wanted to tell you that I'm still reading your blog, YES! Good luck with your difficult situation...Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11472848064765712096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3232363564912219130.post-15707877372291389432010-06-03T20:43:41.398-04:002010-06-03T20:43:41.398-04:00That sounds tough. I hope things improve... I don&...That sounds tough. I hope things improve... I don't have anything Quranic to say, but I do feel that in Islam, it's OK and even good to gently tell a person when they are doing something unislamic/wrong. I think that even if your mom is your mom, it doesn't allow her to do just anything to you. You should be treated with respect like any other person! It seems that it would not be bad to let her know how you feel and how you see the things she is doing so that she can improve herself. <br /><br />It's possible she doesn't take it that well and doesn't change her behavior, and I suppose in this case, you would have done what the right thing in telling her, and the right thing in at least maintaining your level of respect towards her. It will only be good deeds on you. <br /><br />I got similar advice on dealing with my husband. He was not at all fulfilling his obligations as a husband, and so I didn't put any effort into mine, but my friend told me that any extra that I do will count and to not feel like I should just be even with him. It's hard, but it's worth it to be better in the end.Candicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15769515811889621243noreply@blogger.com