- November 17, 2005 - Names
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Salam (peace) to all who read this... (anyone reading this)
There is a lot of talk about reverts changing their names - I have not changed mine nor do I wish to be know in the 'real' world with a different name, I'll tell you why not (this may change at any time in my life - I'm like that ) Firstly, I am who I am, was born with my name and have no problem with it ! Secondly, having changed religions I don't feel the need or desire to change my name, after all I am still ME but am a different religion. (makes sense?) But! having said all this I do realize why people do like to change their names. They have embraced a whole 'new' life and because of that they want everything to be new. I myself had bought a silver band ring and had a name enscribed on it (a combination of my last name and first name - creating a new name) when my father passed away. I have no idea why I did that, or where the idea had come from, but I feel that it was saying goodbye to a part of my old life and welcoming a new one. I think its a part of coping with life changing - that was my way. So that is why I have decided that on my 'internet' life, I want to be known as Aalya (two A's just because im always different ) So in 'real' life im still ME! but on web land im Aalya ! A nice way to bring in the 'new' but still stand by the 'old', because who you are now will shape who you are in the future !Take care all...
My daily thoughts about my life - Some part religious, other part whimsical but always typical Aalya
11/17/05
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2 comments:
nice post sis... I haven't really changed my name.. most ppl know my 'real' name too.. and i feel the same way as you. Im the same person, i was born with this name and so far it hasnt done me any harm alhamdulillah. So why?? My name doesnt mean anything horrible so i am who i am.. and whatever name u choose to call me ill answer.. although not too used to hearing ppl call me ammena ;o) Fi amenallah
Salaams I totally agree! For me though I did change my name, but it was cuz I hated my name and everything associated wiht it. I changed even my birth certificate! but it is certainly not required in islam unless your name has a bad meaning like demon or poo poo head (LOL)anyhow not to many names mean bad things, mothers are for the most part kind in naming thier children ;) Well take care all and salaams
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