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8/20/09

Ramadan preparations

Assalam alaikum & Peace to all

Ramadan is either tomorrow or the next day and I am starting it tomorrow... and yes I know that the N. American start is Saturday but I have the calendar from the Mosque and it says tomorrow and besides that they have not sighted the moon yet, they could tonight which means its tomorrow. Personally I feel that it is more important to fast, pray and do good this whole month + or - one day!

So I have a few goals this year as I will not be fasting - yeah don't you all jump on me! - I have my reasons, and this little one in here is the primary one! I am worried because the days are long for fasting and I have to drive all the way home (40km drive one way) and also my Mom is with us this year so that makes it a bit more difficult, only because I know that she would not agree with me fasting (she knows I fast during Ramadan) right now. So inshallah I will try and make it up when I can, I will inshallah be breast-feeding so it may be a while, we'll see. I have looked at the rulings of what is expected of the pregnant/breastfeeding woman, and to be honest I got a headache trying to determine what I should and should not do. So I have decided - may Allah forgive me and accept what I do - to give money to 'feed' a poor person for the whole month as well as making up the fast at a later date, inshallah. Some rulings say that you do not need to give the charity for the food, but I think why not? I do not give enough during the year so I feel this is a good opportunity to give more.

As well I am going to try and get up for suhur with hubby and make him something good to eat, this is a really struggle for me as I HATE TO GET UP THAT EARLY! but I feel its something I can do to 'make' up for not fasting. (I'll see how jolly I am to get up that early)

I really want to try and learn at least one more Quran sura, I have really been lacking with this, I am ashamed to say but it is reality.

As for food I will be cooking just normal foods but I will also be trying a few things out - first one is Ramazan pide (Turkish bread they make at Ramadan time - recipe is in that link)
also I made stuffed dates, I just love those!
They are just dates that are split and filled with ground almonds that has been mixed with powdered sugar and vanilla if you like - they are just so yummy and filling- mashallah!

So, inshallah all our prayers, fasts and charity will be accept and Allah keeps us on the right path always!




4/28/09

Istanbul's first female mosque designer

Assalam alaikum & Peace to all

Just a short article/video I found



It is quite and interesting design...I really like how bright and open it is! I hope there
will be more pictures of it in the future from the inside.

What are your thoughts on it?

1/19/09

Does God choose you or do you choose God or both?


Assalam alaikum & Peace to all...

Another re-post of an old blog - February 9th 2007 12:00 AM


Going to try to blog a bit more again...we'll see how it goes.

Just a random thought that popped into my mind at this late hour (11:44pm) so forgive the spelling and grammar errors!

So that is the question : Does God choose you or do you choose God or both?

I would like to think its both, ultimately you choose to have faith or not. I was just commenting to my mother that we cannot see God, or touch or feel God but we have faith that God is 'there ' or 'here' or whatever you may think. That knowledge is faith, it sometimes is unshakable, sometimes it lacks conviction, and even sometimes it just floats away... I tend to have it float a lot these days...but with God's help I have managed to 'catch' it again. My religious convictions take many turns and dips, but hey that's life right? Right! (says she in the middle of the night with one eye open !! ) I chose the path of Islam right now... so do I regret it ...of course not...but sometimes thoughts do float on in that say: "What exactly did I do? What is expected of me now? What will my future look like now? Does anything really have to change that much?? A whole lot of questions that I am currently looking for answers to...anyone know an 'answer store' ??
OK, so what did I exactly do? I changed religions...OK next. What is expected of me... not much it seems... just live a life where you believe in God and worship God only... OK can do that, what else? What will my future look like... Only God knows, and you know what...that is fine by me, I don't feel like 'predicting' what my life will be like because I can never know where my life will lead me, or to whom or to what situation. I will just have to roll on and deal with all that comes my way!! It seems I've answered my own questions... (wow light bulb moment I guess!!) Not really... I am still struggling with so many things in life.
God has chosen me to walk this path... All praise to God (Alhamduillah) but it is not without its trials or hardships but I have to keep reminding myself that it is also not without its joys or happiness. I thank God everyday ...that me and my family and friends are safe...I thank God that I can open my eyes in the morning and see the gray, blue or even black skies. I thank God that I have a roof over my head and heating to keep me safe and warm! I thank God for choosing me to live this life and not an others life. I choose to thank God for all of these blessings !! I believe God will help me and all those others who have chosen His way!

( A small prayer I say each night )

God please watch over all the believing people of the world
and all those people who have fallen off the path, please lead them back to the path
and for those who do not know the path, please guide them to it.

~Amen~

Comments:

salam, i voted God chooses, yes we both choose but in the end it is God that wants you on his path. I always remember that Shaitan can deviate u from the path, but in the end if God has chosen you, u will eventually get to his path. I remember telling someone who refuses to make future plans that you can make your plans and do what you want, if God has his plan and its different you will eventually get there it will just take more time and effort, but in the end Allahu alim (God knows best) Thanks for this post sis, I like to keep in touch with how you are feeling :) Fi amenallah

A salaam alaikum. I like this post, it is a good question. I think it's both. We all know that Allah guides whom he wills, it's obvious because not everyone is blessed with this beautiful deen. Alhamdulillah God chose us, but whether we accept Allah's will is on us. So we make that choice also. Also those questions that you ask yourself are ones that I and I'm sure other Muslims ask themselves as well (especially us reverts). You know that life is a struggle in every aspect, so just because we become Muslim doesn't mean that will change. We will still have questions, obstacles, difficulties, etc. We just have have a better way to deal with them (trusting only in Allah). So take care sister and know that you are not alone in your endeavors.
P.S. Mind if I steal your prayer, or do you have copyrights on it? LOL.That is a prayer that is suffice for us all.


Aalya
Wa alaikum assalam...
Thanks for the comments Ammena "but in the end if God has chosen you, u will eventually get to his path" how true that is!
Nope no copyright...unless you can copyright my thoughts...lol...Its just a small prayer that I thought up one night..I always struggled with the idea 'am I leaving anyone out of my prayers?' So this kind of encompasses everyone!

Assalamu alaikom,
I think ups and downs in faith are normal. I see it regularly online that a sister is feeling a low (and upset about it) and I've been there myself so I sympathize!
I think the answer is both because we have to meet God halfway. Nothing comes for free and we have to earn this, I think. And I can't remember if it's hadith or a Qur'an verse that says if we try even just a little, extend our hand just a little, God will come running into our lives. So there you go, it's "both". :)
Anyway, I hope you are doing alright and I'm glad to see you blogging again.

Aalya
"I think ups and downs in faith are normal"
That is so true... just because you are Muslims does not mean you are immune to feeling up and down...none of us is perfect!
Thanks!


Yes. Remind yourself that none of us are perfect. Even the seemingly most pious Muslim you know has inner struggles and periods of lower or higher iman. It's completely natural.
To me, I think the best game plan is to always adhere to what you consider the basics. Stick through the low periods, try to maintain the basics at least so that you avoid that downward spiral of guilt feelings, and then when your outlook improves, you can put it behind you without any lingering guilt or bad feelings.
I say that not because I think you should feel guilty about anything, or because I think you are or are not keeping the basics of the faith, but only because I know from my own struggles and those of friends and acquaintances online, that we beat ourselves up too much about our shortcomings and that guilt often brings us even lower.


12/9/08

Prayer only or a community gathering place...



Assalam alaikum & Peace to all

Something has been in my mind recently about how a mosque is set up and used. First some background of where my ideas have come from. I was raised as a Catholic and as such we were expected to attend Church and with that "Sunday school", which was where you 'learned' about religion and were made into 'good little christians' (anyway you get the idea). After the school you were given cookies and juice and were sent off on your merrily way. The church was a meeting place of sorts, it was a place to meet with family and friends, as well as a place to pray and worship. I always liked the fact that there were programs set up for young and old, that you could go to socialize with like-minded people and perhaps engage in some learning as well - ok this was my ideal place, I know they existed because I've had friends who had a very enriching experience at church - I however did not experience this always -anyway on to my ideas now. I wondered if the Mosque should be such a place? Should it be a place to pray and worship as well as encourage the young and old to be active within the community? The quick answer is 'yes, of course it should be' but then when I think of it more I am hesitant, and my answer becomes... maybe not.
So with that question begins my research into this whole topic of what the mosque should be.
Found this article that seems to cover all my concerns and ideas.

Many people came to the Prophet offering their protection and hospitality. Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) gratefully acknowledged their good feelings requesting them to release the leash of his she-camel, for it was directed by Allah to the place where the Prophet was to stay. Finally, the she-camel came to a halt. The Prophet descended and, later on, his Mosque (known in Arabic as: Al-Masjid An-Nabawi) was built at that place.

Thus, two mosques were built within a short period of time. This is a crystal-clear indication to the far-reaching role the mosque has to play in molding the shape of the community that is chosen by Almighty Allah to lead humanity in the spiritual, moral, and social change along the future history of humankind till the world comes to an end.

In his commentary on the Qur'an, Al-Qurtubi, a prominent explanator of the Qur'an wrote extensively on the two verses quoted below, bringing out a wide range of topics related to the mosque.

I shall touch on some of these topics:

The Function of the Mosque

In the Qur'an. There are a number of verses in the Qur'an that stress, most importantly, the spiritual function of the mosque. For example, Almighty Allah says,

(In Houses that Allah has allowed to be exalted and that His name will be remembered therein. Therein, do offer praise to Him, at morning and evening, men whom neither merchandise nor sale beguiles them from the remembrance of Allah and constancy in prayer and paying to the poor their due, men who fear the day on which hearts and eyeballs will be overturned.) (An-Nur 24:36-37)

...The mosques are the places for the regeneration of our spiritual power through prayers, the remembrance of Allah, recital of the Qur'an, and supplications. [According to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)], Mosques are the places the angels frequent most, where peace and tranquility descend upon those who are sitting there reciting and studying the Qur'an.Mosques are also the most suitable places for offering the prayer. They are aloof from the hustle and bustle of the streets, workplaces, or markets. At the mosque, a sense of sanctity and reverence replaces the worry and trouble of daily life. If the mind is troubled outside the mosque, it is at peace inside, for it is in communication with the ultimate source of comfort and spiritual joy.

In the Sunnah. There are different types of Sunnah. Here, the practical Sunnah is the one under discussion...
At Madinah, the Prophet was free to meet with his Companions at any time and in any place. The most suitable venue was the mosque. Since its establishment, the mosque assumed responsibilities that were not previously known to any place of worship. The life of the newly emerging community was gradually taking shape in and through the mosque.

The Prophet's Mosque Roles

The following exhibits, besides being a place for performing the prayers, the significant roles played by the Prophet's Mosque:

The mosque as a center for education. Islam is the religion of learning. Its miracle is a rational miracle; i.e., the Qur'an. The first revealed verses were about learning: reading and writing. There was no school or college to enroll in. The place where those seeking guidance could easily find what they sought was the mosque of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).

There are many references in which the importance of the mosque as a place of learning is emphasized. Al-Bukhari and Muslim related a story of three people entered the mosque; the Companions were sitting in a circle around the Prophet. One of the three found a place and sat in;, the second sat at the back, while the third went away. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "The first person came forward, so Allah came forward to him. The second was shy, so Allah did not wish to embarrass him. The third turned away, so Allah turned away from him." No moral, spiritual incentive to learn could be more touching than such a parable.

The mosque as a shelter for the homeless. Many Muslims who migrated with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) were single, homeless, and destitute. They were lodged in the mosque. They were known as the people of Suffah. Abu Hurairah was one of them. Also, when `Abdullah ibn Umar was young and single, the mosque was his bedroom. Moreover, the great mosques in the Muslim cities served as hostels for Muslim travelers.

The mosque as a nursing home. Rufaydah, one of the pious Companions of Prophet Muhammad, used to nurse sick people in the Prophet's Mosque. In her tent in the Mosque, she nursed Sa`d ibn Mu`adh, until he passed away.

The mosque as a place of entertainment on special occasions. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) encouraged that marriage be contracted and celebrated in the mosque. Furthermore, he allowed the Abyssinians to perform a folklore dance and `A'ishah was leaning on his shoulder and watching their performance.

These were among the most important roles the mosque played in molding the shape of the Muslim nation. Those roles continued in one way or another all through the Islamic history. Great mosques are still famous for their academic history: the Sacred Mosque in Makkah, the Prophet's Mosque in Madinah, Al-Aqsa Mosque, Al-Azhar Mosque, Az-Zaytouna Mosque, and Al-Qarawiyyin Mosque — the latter being the center of learning where great non-Muslim a lumnus like Pope Sylvester II, [who is credited with introducing the use of Arabic numerals and the concept of zero to Europe], studied.

Read the complete article here


Ok so it seems that historically the Mosque was used as a prayer place, school and a meeting place. Now, the real question is if this should be true today or not? We have schools, and meeting places do we really have to make the Mosque into something that we may not need? Here is my personal opinion on it. The Mosque should be a center and meeting place for Muslims, all of them, men, women and children. I think it would be great to go back and have the Mosque be a vibrant part of the community. The only thing is that I don't think that can happen. Somehow setting up a Mosque to be friendly to women and children is a major undertaking... can't understand why but that's how it is. How many Mosques do not even have a place for women let alone a place to accomodate children. Now who's fault is that? We can play the blaming game, but that will not get anyone anywhere, maybe we should try and focus energy into changing the 'norm' and include women and children. I also realize that there are many cultural deterents to overcome - those would have to be addressed first. This is why I don't think the Mosque can be something other than a place for worship, at most a place of learning. I also know that men are known to 'congregate' at the Mosque and engage in more than worship or learning, they make it a 'meeting place' - almost like a social club. I don't agree with doing that, either go there to learn or pray but don't go there to 'socialize' - there are many other places that that can be done. Until there can be a good balance between worship and learning and is welcoming to all I think the Mosque should be for praying only - Inshallah I will experience this one day or at least find a Mosque that is attempting to be someting for all the community!

Comments, views are as always welcomed!!

7/8/08

Dawah...only the person won't know it!??



Assalam alaikum & peace to all

I have a question. My mom is Catholic (she is practicing but in her own way) and of late she has become very 'devout', in the terms that she has gone back and is reading the bible a lot more. This makes me happy yet also makes me sad.
I tried to tell her about Islam (she does not know that I am Muslim -long story) and we've had some good discussions about it, but I know in her mind it's just not the 'right' religion. Sigh ....
So now I came up with an idea that I would print off for her (in her own language - she is good in English but I know that if I print it in her own language it will be more meaningful) some verses of Quran but not say it is from there, just tell her that it is some religious writings.
Ok, so is this totally and utterly wrong? Yes, it is a bit deceitful but I'm trying to show the writings in a positive way. I know she would never bother to look at the Quran if she knew it was that... so I thought I would give her the print out and let her read it and see what she thinks of it...and maybe one day I'll tell her its Quran?? Ugg maybe this is a bad idea. Let me know what you all think.

Thanks!

1/28/08

My own revert confrence...ok get together

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This weekend was a very nice one Mashallah! I spent Saturday afternoon with two other reverts/converts - chatting and getting to know one another better. It always amazes me at how different each of our stories are and I never get tired of listening to them! There really is something comforting when you realize that you are not 'alone' in your experiences. We went for hot chocolate, had a nice talk, then went to a flea market - bought a few nice skirts (one of them doesn't fit ! arrr) Time came around for prayers and we were in search of a mosque in that area, so we asked one of the people at the market ( they were selling lovely scarfs) where was the closest mosque, but instead she told us that there is a room set up for praying! This was a very welcome surprise, so we proceeded to go and pray. I don't get the chance very often to pray in 'community', so this was a nice change and I can honestly say that it was very different than praying on your own. Different but good, being there and praying, the three of us formed a bit of a community, and I can see why people do like to pray in congregation. There is something about sharing the prayer with others, I can't explain but its just a feeling of strength and joy that we all are praying the same way. Knowing that this is the same exact way that the Prophet prayed with all his people as well as all those many generations afterwards. Its another one of those 'experiences' that I walk away with a feeling of 'belonging', mashallah I am having more and more of these experiences, Inshallah it continues!!

12/28/07

Make me a Muslim - Comments

I have just watched the episodes "Make me a Muslim" it is an English documentary about some ordinary British people who have decided to become Muslim for 3 weeks - it shows their trials, and struggles with trying to emulate Muslims in England. If you have the time please view the entire episode - this is the first link to it, there are 3 parts and each part has about 4-5 episodes



I first saw this on sister Ammena's blog and thought I would add my own comments - but realized it would have been too long to post and didn't want to take over her blog...so I hope you don't mind Ammena but I will post my thoughts here.

In general I liked the idea of exposing everyday, common people to the idea of Islam - no better way to get to know people than to live a 'day' in their life, or in this case three weeks. I liked how they showed what and how Muslims live, what Islam is about and how to practice it.
The idea of the experiment is a good one but I think it was a bit rushed and not thought out too well.

I am not one for criticizing people but there were some instances that the mentors were not behaving quite 'Islamically'. First was the fact that Mohamed was looking for women out on the street for Luke - I just don't think that he should have been interacting with the women like he was, and one of them was married! (or not single at least). They had repeatedly talked about no men and woman contact and interaction yet here he was walking the streets looking for a woman! I just think that if they were to keep such a strict guideline with the 'students' they had to follow what they preached. Still on the lines of modesty, I have to ask why Dawn was not the one to go through the clothing items with one of the women?? Was it really appropriate for the Muslim man to see and judge what was the correct item for the women to wear? Somehow that whole thing was annoying to me seeing her holding up a two piece bikini type underwear and saying to the Muslim man, 'I can't wear this on the beach?"
Other things that bothered me about it was how 'strict' the whole thing was, from the clothing to the fasting - was a bit 'too' much. I really don't think a lesson on the Ramadan fasting was best shown by letting them fast for seventeen hours! As well I feel there was just too much focus on the Hijab issue for the women. Ok, yes covering the head is an aspect of Islam, but I would have much rather them know that they had to dress modest, yet as well keep a modest 'tongue' and keep a modest attitude towards others. Dawn was the one who was in charge of teaching the women about covering, and while I can understand that it is frustrating to be constantly attacked and judged for wearing the scarf, she did not have to resort to attacking them back. I am specifically talking about when she was sitting with the women and one of them was resisting wearing the scarf and Dawn replies, " Well its been two weeks now and you have been told to wear it, and your just going to have to deal with it" (I can't recall the exact words right now) I just somehow felt she was very confrontational with them. I mean in 'real' life as Muslim women we struggle with this Hijab issue, while some of us wear it, many others do not, it is up to the individual if they will wear it - it should not be forced upon by anyone.

Ok, so enough criticizing, now on to the things I liked about this program.
Once again the premise for this is wonderful. They focused mostly on the way Muslims should be living, basically the ideal life of a Muslim - I like that they show that Muslims are 'human' and they are not really so different than the rest of the population, just have different habits and ways of doing things. I like how they got an interesting cross-section of people, everything from an actress to a gay man. I really liked the approach of Ajmal, and the calm way he speaks and treats the 'students', he would sit down with them and really listen to their concerns and address them. All in all, it is a great first step, and I as well would love to see a follow-up to this story. Interestingly that two of the 'students' had looked into Islam a bit more seriously, I think that is a great step. Hats off tot he people involved with this project, I can only imagine how hard it was for all those involved, 'students' and mentors alike - Inshallah all the participants have taken away something from the experience that will enrich their lives for the better.

12/14/07

Discussions with a co-worker


I'll start by saying first that at my work place they do not know I am a Muslim - its just a fact of my life right now and until I get to a higher level of faith its just going to have to stay that way. If any of you reading this ( well if there is anyone reading this) object to my not informing the world about my conversion you should probably stop reading my blog because it will have a lot of content on this subject. So moving on ...
The guy comes walking into my office to drop off a piece of paper on my desk, does so and then proceeds to look out the window of the office, something he does quite frequently. As I continue my work and think he's gotten lost in the scenery, turns around and says: " Do you celebrate Christmas?" Ack...gasp, I try to think of an answer quickly and not have my face flush red (which it does very quickly I might add). " Well my family comes together at this time yeah" was my answer, I thought it was a fairly good one, until he comes back and says: "no I mean do you believe in Christmas are you a Christian?" Oh good grief, face turns read, mind starts racing with the possible outcomes of this conversation - not one are good. "Ah well no, not religiously, we don't celebrate it, haven't gone to Church in years" I desperately hope his next question is not : "What is your religion?" Which is almost exactly what he did say, but phrased it: " Aren't you a Catholic?" I smile and say: "No" and hope that is the end of it! It was.
Now, you have to understand that it is not my intention in life to deny I am a Muslim, but in certain situations I don't want to reveal what I practice. Is that really something blameworthy? Some have said yes, basically its a 'lie by omission' idea. Perhaps, but its not an intentional lie - if that makes sense.
Now back to this guy whoi s still standing in my office. He somehow got onto the subject of religions, and what each practice - I wasn't listening too closely to him, but my head shot up when he said something about; " you know that black chunk of rock..." Up comes my head from my papers, "Oh the one Muslims walk around... yeah I know and actually you know what that really is, its a place that Abraham had rebuilt, and some say that there is even some history of Adam and Eve linked to that site..." I was kind of rambling and not making too much sense at this point, but I just got so excited that he had asked about it and I had a chance to respond. He did stop me and say: " oh but they don't believe in the 'same' Adam and Eve as we do." I exclaimed: " Yes they do, and in Abraham, Moses, and Jesus." His prolific reply, "you don't say?" Then the conversation turned somewhat a different direction and trailed off, but I had felt so great that I was able to tell him these things.
I realized that he really did not know that Muslims share a common history, that yes its the same Adam and Eve!!
I can't help but wonder if this small conversation had at least sightly opened up his mind - well probably not because this guy is too set in his ways, he is not really for any organized religion. You never know though, people can sometimes surprise you - I know that was true for myself.

12/13/07

Eid al-Adha


The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said,
“You are supposed to fast with people, and celebrate the `Eid with them, and perform sacrifice with the people.”

“Surely Abraham was an example, obedient to Allah, by nature upright, and he was not of the polytheists. He was grateful for Our bounties. We chose him and guided him unto a right path. We gave him good in this world, and in the next he will most surely be among the righteous.” (Qur’an 16:120-121)

And “We made him (Abraham) pure in this world and in the hereafter; he is most surely among the righteous. When his Lord said to him, ‘Submit,’ he said, ‘I submit myself to the Lord of the Worlds.’” (Qur’an 2:130-131)

I can't help but be in wonderment and awe of the faith of Abraham - I mean how many of us can really truly honestly say that we could have gone through the same ordeal as he did and come away with a stronger faith?
Just as in the month of Ramadan, Eid al-Adha makes me think of all the less fortunate in the world, those who are suffering, those with no food or shelter - these times I am so grateful to God. I love the idea of distributing the food three ways; one portion to the poor, the second portion to your family and the last portion stays within your close family. What better way to celebrate the sacrifice made by Abraham and an excellent reminder of the plight of the poor.

“It is not their meat nor their blood that reaches Allah; it is your piety that reaches Him.” (Surah Al-Hajj 22:37)

I hope and pray that all of us are always reminded of how lucky and blessed we are to be able to celebrate this festival and that we never lose sight of those who are in the greatest of need!

12/12/07

Peaceful Prayers


Salam & Peace to all... today I feel a bit introspective and feel like posting something nice instead of something that stirs controversy or very deep thought.
One of the most beautiful things I find in Islam is the way that Muslims pray. Five times a day you stop what you do and engage in a remembrance of God (Alhamdulillah - all praise belongs to God). For me the most special is when I am alone and the room is darkened and I have lots of time and patience - rather clarity of mind- to devote to prayer. I truly feel a wave of serenity take over me and whatever has happened in the day, whatever anyone has said or done to me, I know that God is always there when I call out to Him. I stand there calm my mind, trying to forget the light streaming in from the blinds outside, forget the work that waits for me tomorrow, and lift up my hands and say "Allahu Akbar - God is greatest" With that powerful statement I start my prayers, ask God for forgiveness, ask for help and ask for strength to get through another day - another day where I may praise Him and realize exactly how lucky we all are to be able to stand and offer thanks and praise.

12/11/07

I am an inquisitive woman...


who just happens to be Muslim and a convert to Islam!! Now if that doesn't get your attention...nothing will !! I won't bore you with the long story of how I became a Muslim, its a good story (In my opinion... all stories are good and interesting!) but it is a not the main focus for what I want to accomplish in this blog. Ok, so you may ask, what do you want to accomplish in this blog??
Good questions, I want to relate my struggles
as a convert, (yawn), "ok so you're another Muslim who is confused about changing religions" blah blah... (yawn.)
I can hear you saying that, but here is the kicker...I'm going to tell you exactly what my struggles are, not just candy coat the thing and say " oh well I will get over it, its just another struggle... ho hum" Oh no my friends, I will tell you exactly my thoughts feelings and opinions on everything I have gone through! You may also ask, "why do this, why expose to the web all your faults and mistakes?" Well, simple answer: I need to write about it and some of you new Muslims need to hear it too, ready?

WE ARE NOT PERFECTLY KNOWLEDGEABLE AS SOON AS WE SAY OUR SHAHADA!

Through my many web searches and studies in Islam one thing strikes me always, I never see the 'real' stories of how people struggle with daily life.I want to hear about how hard it is to pray at work, or how hard it is to wear the hijab, as well as hear the good stories of how "yes, I finally was able to pray without my notes" Now, I also realize there is this small aspect of Islam that says you should not really reveal your weakness' (I'm not sure of where I saw this first, I'll have to research it more, but I definitely feel that most people do adhere to this rule)
Well, I'm going to go against that only because I feel its so important for people to see the 'humanity' of
the person who is living with this.
I'm not advocating living an Islamic life that goes against all its basic tenants...
like the ever popular and totally drawn out debate about hijab.
As well the 'you must pray 5 times a day, right away
as a new Muslim, and no you cannot use your notes and yes it must be in Arabic and you must above all pronounce it correctly!" Look, we've all been in these situations and you are where you are in your Islamic
journey, if that means that you are not at a place in your faith to wear hijab, I want you to still feel you are a Muslim (shock) that you are on a path of discovery and learning, just like the rest of us. I want you to know that prayer is one of the basic requirements of Islam, and yes it is incumbent on all Muslims to offer the prayer 5 times a day (not debatable) but I also want you to know that it is ok to be a beginner
and you will have difficulties in
memorizing, pronouncing, and even performing your prayers - but that God is all-wise and all-forgiving and above all He is the only one who knows your intentions. So now that you know what my blogs will be about...I hope you will join
me in my struggles and joys. (yes, I am not only going to write about 'bad' experiences!)


Fi aman illah - In God's protection

12/8/05

Revert to Reality















Revert - what does it mean?

Well according to a dictionary meaning it is...
"To return to a former condition, practice, subject, or belief."

Ok what does 'Convert' mean then?
"1. To change (something) from one use, function,
or purpose to another; adapt to a new or different purpose"
" 2. To persuade or induce to adopt a particular religion, faith,
or belief: convert pagans to Christianity"

Language lesson over with for now!

I am fascinated by the fact that people who change to the religion of Islam are called 'reverts' instead of converts.

Ok, a bit of background knowledge now...Muslims believe that we are all born in a state of believing in God and that our parents/guardians/society change this belief into something else. ie. Christianity, Judaism, atheism...and so forth. So when someone adopts Islam as their religion they are said to be 'reverts' because they were born originally into
that state. (Make sense?) If not ...you can google tons about this subject : here is one site http://thetruereligion.org/modules/xfsection/ some really good 'revert' stories for those interested!

So back to my original idea. I was and still am fascinated that these people are called reverts. Look at the idea of 'convert' it says "To persuade or induce to adopt a particular religion, faith, or belief" Hmm... I don't wish to be induced into anything let
alone into faith! I think my rant here is going to take on a which religion is better feel...but that is not my intention. I just want to talk about what ideas and values a so called 'terrorist, woman hating - religion' has.

There is a verse from the Quran (Islam's holy book)
There is no compulsion in religion.... 2:256

So the term revert fits in perfectly with this idea. You are not inducing or forcing any belief onto anyone. You are free to believe or not believe. Now, tell me that is not fair and just?

I suppose this 'rant' is about why people get such misconstrued notions about Islam ( I was one of them) These same people do not realize that they are mixing what they are seeing on TV and what they think that that group of people prescribe to. There is a wonderful quote that I
heard: Do not judge Islam with the behaviour of Muslims, Islam is perfect, Muslims are not.

I try to keep this in mind every time something horrible is written or shown about Islam. Only wish that others would have the same opinion. Can only hope and pray that will happen one day!

So happy to call myself a 'revert'. I have come back to something which is natural...it is a natural state I am in now. Feels like coming home...lol well not really home but at least
on the way to it.

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